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MBTI · Compatibility

You two —
as friends? as partners?

All 136 pairings of the 16 types. Not just a score and goodbye — what confuses you about each other, and how to actually make it work, broken down in both directions.

※ A for-fun index · attitude matters far more than type

Sixteen people, one office — which one are you?

Same office, different moment. Tap a type to jump to every pairing it appears in.

INTJ at the office — alone after the meeting, wiping the whiteboard while already sketching the next move INTJ “The Forever Strategist” alone after the meeting, wiping the whiteboard while already sketching the next move INTP at the office — got one simple question and went so deep there are now twenty tabs open INTP “The Walking Lab” got one simple question and went so deep there are now twenty tabs open ENTJ at the office — at the head of the room, pointing at one arrow and calling the shape of it ENTJ “The Born CEO” at the head of the room, pointing at one arrow and calling the shape of it ENTP at the office — out in the corridor, delightedly making the argument it never raised in the meeting ENTP “Debate Team, Nationals” out in the corridor, delightedly making the argument it never raised in the meeting INFJ at the office — sitting quietly in the corner of the meeting, reading every single thing nobody said out loud INFJ “The Quiet Mind Reader” sitting quietly in the corner of the meeting, reading every single thing nobody said out loud INFP at the office — five minutes before home time, quietly spacing out at the window nobody uses INFP “The 3 A.M. Poet” five minutes before home time, quietly spacing out at the window nobody uses ENFJ at the office — took the glum junior up to the roof, handed over a drink, and is actually listening ENFJ “The Life Coach You Didn't Hire” took the glum junior up to the roof, handed over a drink, and is actually listening ENFP at the office — twelve sticky notes on the wall, and three of them are already a mystery ENFP “The Idea Firework” twelve sticky notes on the wall, and three of them are already a mystery ISTJ at the office — still writing up the minutes, speaker and timestamp and all, only now noticing everyone left ISTJ “The Human Rulebook” still writing up the minutes, speaker and timestamp and all, only now noticing everyone left ISFJ at the office — quietly leaving a warm drink and some medicine on a sick colleague's desk, then slipping away ISFJ “The Unsung Angel” quietly leaving a warm drink and some medicine on a sick colleague's desk, then slipping away ESTJ at the office — arms crossed at the schedule, having just put a red circle around the deadline ESTJ “The Born Class President” arms crossed at the schedule, having just put a red circle around the deadline ESFJ at the office — tallying the team dinner vote, noting down who can't eat what ESFJ “The Group Chat Admin” tallying the team dinner vote, noting down who can't eat what ISTP at the office — deadpan, pops open the jammed printer and has it working again in five seconds ISTP “The Deadpan MacGyver” deadpan, pops open the jammed printer and has it working again in five seconds ISFP at the office — fussing over the colours and spacing of a slide, far longer than over what it actually says ISFP “The Quiet Aesthete” fussing over the colours and spacing of a slide, far longer than over what it actually says ESTP at the office — already on the phone pushing it through, proposal still half-read on the desk ESTP “The Send-It Specialist” already on the phone pushing it through, proposal still half-read on the desk ESFP at the office — making coffee in the pantry and coming back with every last piece of office news ESFP “Human Vitamin D” making coffee in the pantry and coming back with every last piece of office news

Frequently asked

How are these compatibility scores calculated?

They're a for-fun index built from widely-shared folk wisdom about the four letters — how you recharge (E/I), how you talk (S/N), how you handle conflict and comfort (T/F), and your daily rhythm (J/P). There's no science behind the numbers. Friendship and romance are scored separately.

Why is the friendship score different from the romance score?

Because relationships ask different things of you. Between friends, how you talk and how you like to spend time matter most. In a relationship, how you fix a fight (T/F) and how you run a day (J/P) matter far more. That's why some pairs are perfect as friends but need work as partners.

If we score badly, should we not date?

Not at all. A low score doesn't mean incompatible — it means you'll need to translate for each other. Every pairing page breaks down what confuses each of you about the other, in both directions, plus how to defuse it. Honestly, the low-scoring pages are the ones worth reading.

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